ok so fucking obviously im a degenerate
and obviously this post is 18+
and like its funny haha to call yourself one but im really talking about the worst of the worst
like youre not allowed to voice some of these things in the presence of the general population
and honestly i feel like most of that is because other people actually kind of suck
like dont get me wrong theres nothing wrong with being vanilla but i just feel like the general populace has a deep misunderstanding of kink and degeneracy
some of the things i want to talk about are definitely outside of what the public considers socially acceptable to talk about so heres some warnings i guess
-knots
-cnc
-not in depth SA
-yeah thats really it i guess
this one I find really interesting because it really divides the furries and therians amongst themselves
if you arent really familiar with what a knot is its a round ball ish shape that adds some girth on the base of a canine penis and like yeah thats all it really is
and i know your immediate thought is to jump to beastiality but i think youre incredibly wrong if thats where your mind goes because it definitely isnt where mine does
for me personally i dont spend any of my time looking at dog dick so i really couldnt tell you if any of the art online was anatomically accurate even
from my perspective a knot is essentially just a thing that i am (a) aware of via the internet and (b) find appealing mostly due to being a therian
again the issue is that people find it really hard to remove the concept from beastiality
but i have no intent to engage with or look at beastiality content nor do i have the intent to engage in it
im not interested in it in the slightest and it honestly makes me sick to even have to think about whilst im writing this
so why do people get so hung up on it? well it is a feature of [dogs]
and im going to touch on this in a second but let me get through this thought first
it also happens to show up mostly in furry and furry adjacent scenes
and furries have a noticeably bad rep for being terrible people at least in the public eye
it also happens to be a shape that *isnt human* which by default means that it must be horrible
i just really cant see it
like take unicorn horn dildos or tentacle porn or like half the other shit out there
do you really think some japanese hentai author is really out there trying to fuck an octopus
and sure unicorns arent real but SO WHAT theyre an animal so what makes that a better fantasy than this one
and dont even get me started on the whole well you want to fuck dogs thing
remember how i said [dogs] earlier
well yeah thats because knots are a canine feature not a dog specific feature
and so where do things like therians and werewolves and furries fit in?
we apply canine values or qualities to *ourselves*
for fun
and that is probably the biggest defining factor
no furry or therian or werewolf lover is out here wanting to fuck dogs unless they also happen to be a fucking zoophile
and surprise surprise there are regular ass cishet normie fucks who are zoophiles
but the majority of us would throw the fuck up at the thought of harming an animal let alone touching them inappropriately at all
that was a lot of the word fuck
but my point does still stand
its an entire mental separation of the FEATURE of a CANINE IN GENERAL from an ACTUAL ANIMAL and taking those FEATURES and applying it a HUMAN or ANTHROPOMORPHIZED CHARACTER
so when i say i like knots i do
but like
i like them on the *people* im fucking
so thats my rant on that?
well hold your fucking horses ok
let me start this off by saying that i dont condone sexual harrasment, assault, or rape
the bare fucking minimum right
so what is cnc for the unaware
well it stands for consensual non-consent
keyword there is the first consensual
cnc is a [kink] that involves some form of "non-consent"
and this is where most people get the notion that its solely a rape kink and that anyone who engages is morally ruined and evil
its the same thing with knots where obviously there are actual rapists but these people should not be confused with people into cnc'
now where i stand on liking cnc or being into it or anything is a real question for me because im not even sure myself
i was sexually assaulted several times across the years when i was younger and it definitely messed me up
but another thing it did was give me this taste for lack of power in my relationships
i personally dont think i could ever engage in cnc within the confines of the same city everything happened to me in
but the idea that it could grow from there if i moved away is whatever
i dont really care to be honest
but i did want to talk about it anyways because i believe it brings up a good point in a similar fashion to how i feel about knots
the real problem is nobody can have a discussion about complex nuanced topics like this
because youll immediately be labeled a rapist and outcast from any normal circle
first of all cnc isnt really even a [kink]
its more an umbrella term for many kinks that involve some form off consensual non-consent
and i really want to keep spelling that out for you so that you see the word consensual
a big thing withing the BDSM community or amongst anyone who practices cnc is the idea of needing a strong sense of consent
there are contracts safe words and signals that can be used to communicate
all to specifically avoid ever crossing that boundary with your play partner
id like to look at some examples of kinks that involve cnc now so that you can get a little bit more of an understanding of the scope were working with here
a big one is free use
and that might not be your first thought or guess
but its a good one to use to explore the concept
the idea of free use is that the consenting individual is allowing themselves to be fucked whenever, sometimes wherever, by the person they are engaging in this play with
i have seen people write out contracts
i have seen non-verbal communication or signaling that one is consenting at the current time
again there are safewords and strong communications between partners
but the grand scheme is that you like being of use to your partner whenever they may need to use you
and yeah thats hot right like it really is endearing to quote unquote "give up" your agency to a partner for their pleasure
i mean thats essentially the spirit of subbing right there
so really all it is is for example me talking to my "oomf" and going hey heres a paper that we can both sign that says what the conditions of free use means to us what words to use when communicating for safety when and where its appropriate etc
and i could go do that and sign myself off but id still have the comfort of knowing that if my "oomf" ever tried to initiate something with me and i wasnt feeling down for that all id have to do is say a word
the same thing applies to like somnophilia
fucking someone whilst theyre asleep
and that one im less qualified to speak on
but again there are so many ways to ensure comfort from both parties and maintain a boundary of consent
as soon as consent is withdrawn anyone who is not a bad actor should and will immediately cease the activity
and heres one that you all are going to fucking hate because im going to clock you
so many of you fuck drunk
or high
and remember how in school we learnt if someone is drunk and or high not to fuck them
yeah well im sure you do
and if you dont well uh jesus go learn some more about consent
point being intoxication play is just another form of cnc in my eyes
and you may not be doing it on purpose
but im going to lump you in anyways because this is essentially what it is
if you and your partner have ever gone hey lets take some edibles and fuck
or if youve gone out to a party with them and youve both had some drinks and your plan is to hit a hotel room after
then are you not essentially verbally contracting these people
youre talking to your partner about sex that you are going to have when one or neither of you have the legal ability to consent
so really its like not that uncommon for people to be practicing cnc unknowingly or not
which makes it really annoying when those same people will cast judgement on anyone who engages with cnc
so what i really mean to say about cnc is that its a broad category that really just gets turned into "hey lets fuckin get this dawg cause they like rape" when honestly maybe its just being into serving their partner whenever they need it
or someone like you and me that gets high and has sex sometimes
its not really like this huge taboo thing that you need to worry about or care about others being into
the fact of the matter is that you and i and the people into cnc are still against rape and sexual assault and will do anything to protect people from it
and honestly i think the people into cnc have a better understanding of consent and take more care of their partners than most people
so thats that
because i want the world to be more degenerate
i want people to stop witchunting those who are into the less vanilla things than others
its really tiring being into something sexually and having people apply their misguided morals onto you
and i like to talk about these things
i think a lot of people like to talk about sex and kink and shit
i want to be able to show off my degenerate kinky weird therian side on my own damn site
and i want to be able to engage in these things within the kink community
but these god damn fake leftist centrist shitheads want to take away muh god damn freedom
god i hate liberals please radicalize yourself and join the real political left
thank you